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Workaholism and Burnout

In western culture it is easy to get caught up in the fast paced hype of current trends. It seems that there is not enough time to do that which we set out to do. Our tasks lists are longer than our meals with our families. Sitting down to enjoy our families or nurture ourselves is becoming a thing of the past. Unless we stop, look, and listen to how we are really doing or feeling deep inside. I am a single mother of a teenager and I know from first hand how to be an over responsible workaholic. Being a single mom puts me in a position of being the super woman. I have to cook, clean, organize, pay bills, go to work, take care of my daughter, be the absent father, among other things I am suppose to be or do because of my position of being a single parent. I dove into my career as an entrepreneur twelve years ago. I am in the service oriented business. My passion was to meet the needs of my clients and for twelve years I did exactly that. What I did not plan on was over working led me to burn out. I was forced to work so that I can provide and live a good life for my daughter. I thought that money was easier if I worked hard and was never home. I even worked two other jobs to make ends meet. What I found out is that my body can only do that for so long and then I got some sort of illness. This is when depression set in for me and it seems to be the highest emotional illness among single parents. I wanted to be the tough mom and the one who could "do it all" and prove to the world that I can do anything! Well, that was all wrong. The workaholic and burnout came together and I crashed. I hated my every day life, and I hated going to work, and I hated what I use to love to do. Personally and professionally I thought I had it made. Wrong again. My focus was on meeting the needs of my clients and I neglected myself and everyone else around me, including my daughter. She did not deserve that but I felt I had no choice in the matter. we all have choices and I finally took a long look at what I had been doing with my life and how it affected the lives of those around me. Yes, I would have done things differently, but I guess it was my time to learn that over working and burnout became a blessing. Why was it a sign of a blessing? Well, once I realized that I was an over doer, I took that break I needed and realized I am a better person for having gone through all what I did. I want to help others who work too much and I want them to get the help they need before they feel guilty or regret some of the things I did. My motto: "Live with No Regrets". My advice to avoid burnout is to read articles now before it happens. Look for the signs written. If you have lost your lust for life and you are negative every day, get some help. Depression either has set in or you need to get help for your depressed thoughts. When you are depressed it affects others even if you do not think it does. My only wish is that whether you are a single parent or not, over working and burnout usually go hand in hand please do not wait until its too late to get the help you need. Stop, look, and listen to the real you on the inside. Above all remember there is a higher power that cares enough about you that, "this too shall pass."


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How to Answer Job Interview Questions

Give some time researching company profile, its management, establishment which definitely adds to your knowledge and confidence as well. Be prepared to tell your previous experience in terms of your designation and company name. Review your resume well and discuss thoroughly about your previous company without fumbling.

There are some important guidelines for how to answer job interview questions; they will definitely lead to a successful interview:

* Tell me something about yourself?

This is a typical opening question in an interview, be careful and specific. Try to complete the introduction in a short period as possible; you will have to cover four important topics: early years, education, work history and recent career experience. Dont waste you important points here.

* What do you know about our organization?

This is one of the important questions which will show your awareness. You should be ready to discuss the products, services; revenues, reputation, image, goal, management style etc. Never portray as though you know everything and dont overwhelm the interviewer. Take opportunity to show him that you are a keen learner and you want to search more.

* Why do you want to work with our company?

Such questions play a very important role in your selection but only if, you are prepared and you know how to answer job interview questions. The answer will be totally dependant upon your research, the sector in which the company is growing, whether it is research and development, finance, strong management, so you should give answer oriented to company requirement.

* What can you do for us that someone else can not?

Talk about your previous achievements, previous records of successful completion of things in time. Discuss about your skills, interest that you mentioned in resume and make yourself valuable in front of interviewer.

* What interests you in this position?

Here you will have to give two or three attractive aspects of the post mentioned, along with one or two minor negative points.

* Why should we hire you?

Give the answer regarding your ability, experience and energy, your keen learning skill etc.

* What are your expectations from this job?

Your answer for this question should be oriented to company opportunities and not personal security.

* How long would you like to stay with us?

Give a positive response that you want to work with this organization and achieve an indestructible position and want to continue so as to feel challenged to remain in any organization.

* What are your long range goals?

Again this answer should be company oriented, tell your goals such as they are relevant to the company progress as well.

* How successful you have been so for?

Say confidently that you are happy with the way your career has progressed so far, you did quiet well and you dont have any objection about your past.






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